Being a doula for families in ATRs (African Traditional Religions) is sacred work. It’s not just about birth plans and contractions … it’s also about understanding the spiritual frameworks that protect the mother and baby. One of the first questions I ask during consultations is: “Are there any taboos I should know about?” Because sometimes, mama can’t be posted. Sometimes, no one even knows she’s pregnant except me and the midwife. Sometimes, the baby must remain unseen for a season or until th